There are so many things I wish I could have done differently. When I was in the court room I was a smug and remorseless wretch. But I’ve thought about this for years and years. Not a day goes by that I don’t reflect on the past so that I may work to never make those same mistakes again. The truth is, I viewed my crime differently when it happened. Now, on the other hand, I know that what I did was wrong for reasons I was not previously capable of understanding. It was wrong for so many ways that I never thought to consider.
And furthermore, no man deserves murder. I know from the very fiber of my being that people can undergo amazing change. I’ve learned that the rougher one’s past – once this amazing change happens – the contrast from that past life to the current changed life has the power to inspire so many people for so much more positive change. The process is magical. I only wish I could have stepped aside so that this other person could have experienced the same thing.
From all this, I spend my time in the company of my victim. His image is in my mind every day, all the time. But he doesn’t haunt me, his face does not show judgement. There us no hatred or mockery. He simply has become a part of my life, acting as a constant reminder that I must pay a debt which is priceless. And I’ve long ago realized that I’ll never have “payed” my debt to the family or society. This is a permanent thing. My debt is payed the moment I lay my head down for the very last time. Until then, my path of desistance has two sets of footprints. I will have him along on my journey in the back of my mind, constantly reminding me of which direction is forward.