22 days post-release and I feel fine. Vanilla ice cream, beef, work out whenever I want, meet people for luncheons and Zoom calls, have 3 devices going at once and thinking to myself “I legitimately need this other thing too”. I feel the stress of myself more than anything, I don’t feel the world is overwhelming and I don’t have serious fears of what’s out here. Things are wonderful.

I have never felt more supported in my life if I am going to be transparent. Success, therefore, is a state of mind. I feel successful.

I also feel like it might be time to begin talking about my prison experiences. So many of them I have held onto due to fear of repercussions from the prison or someone else. But I am going to finally begin to let go of them, talk about them. Some of them may be scandalous, some not so much. Either way, I am going to unload the burden of secrecy.

In this process if you have questions or comments, please do share. For those of you who are on social media, please comment on the HumanMe.org platform to get those comments back to me. Thanks!


With Love

Ruth Utnage